The idea that we live stressful lives is not new. But how do we deal with it and is there another way to live? I know that I don't deal with it well and I don't know if there is another way to live, at least a way that I would like to live.
My usual method for relieving stress is to ignore it, forget about the problem and try to live life. This method has been so effective that I often suggest it to my wife when she is stressed. I'm sure you can imagine what she thinks about that advice and its efficacy. But I'm starting to come around to my wife's point of view as this method becomes less effective. Thus, I need better stress relievers.
The most relaxing, and thus de-stressing, thing I can think of is drinking a cold beer in a comfortable chair. Maybe there is some ice cream there, Zanzibar Chocolate or Ben & Jerry's Creme Brulee perferably, and maybe I eat that. And while I drink said beer and ice cream, a brand new Community is on TV.
**Examples of things that can relieve stress. It would really stress me out if I was sued for using these images.**
But this drinking beer, eating ice cream and watching the hijinx of Troy and Abed falls into a dangerous category known as guilty pleasures, the place where all favorite things become tainted. Indulging in them brings a smile to my face and a familiar, happy feeling in my belly, but not any true satisfaction. Any pleasure is momentary and quickly replaced by the guilt that really shouldn't surprise anyone (not only is it in the name, but it's the first word!). Instead of drinking beer, I should probably have a water. Ice cream... good in moderation but I have never known how to regulate my ice cream intake. And sitting with my feet up while watching TV, I could be studying or mowing the lawn or finishing the dishes or playing guitar or... any million other things proven to rot my brain less than TV.
Guilt. How can I be stressed about guilt? Okay, that sounds a little stupid now that I've written it. Instead, how can I accept the need for a break in a world that is increasingly demanding of my time and attention? How do I say no and find only pleasure where there used to be guilty pleasure?
And how do you take a guilt free, stress free break from your own stressful life?
